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What is family mediation? Family mediation is where separating or divorced couples meet with professionally trained and experienced mediators in a neutral and confidential environment in order to reach agreement on all issues surrounding the divorce or separation. It can save you money because it reduces the conflict and enables couples to reach agreement in a safe & secure environment. Mediation is for: • Parents - before or after separation• Divorcing or separating couples • Teenage parents • Grandparents • Adult siblings • Parents & adult children • Other members of the extended family where communication and/or relationships are problematic. • Contact arrangements What can be mediated? • Residence of children • Parenting • Communication • Maintenance • Child support • Finance • Holiday arrangements • Property • Sharing possessions • Pensions / Endowments • Settling of debts • Wills and probate • Re-establishing contact • Care of older relatives • Education Family mediation can help improve communication, help you make decisions about future arrangements for the children and help you make decisions about property and finance as it affects your separation. Can anyone access mediation? Our mediation service is committed to equality and is therefore sensitive to issues of gender, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation and disability that may be relevant to the resolution of family disputes. What do people say about family mediation? "Mediation gave me a chance
to
talk with my ex-partner without shouting." What are the costs? Your initial meeting with the mediator is always free and without any obligation or commitment. At this meeting, the mediator will assess whether you would be eligible for publicly funded (legally aided) mediation. You will need to provide your National Insurance number together with evidence of your income (including tax credits and/or benefits status). If you prove to be eligible, mediation will be completely free to you and you may also be able to obtain free legal advice and support from your solicitor alongside mediation. The Statutory Charge (ie the obligation to pay back the cost in the future) does not apply to mediation, so in this case ‘free’ really does mean free.If you are not eligible, or choose not to be assessed, you would usually be required to meet your own mediation costs (but see 'STOP PRESS' below). Our charges are linked to your gross income (ie before stoppages) and range from £56 per hour (under £25,000 pa) to £110 per hour (over £40,000 pa), with those in the middle band paying £80 per hour. An average 1½ hour mediation session would therefore cost £120 (+ VAT) to someone in the middle income bracket. Mediation on child issues generally takes between one and two sessions, whilst finance and property matters or All Issues Mediation (a combination of financial and children issues) are likely to require around three or four meetings. We do not make any extra charge for letters, phone calls and other essential administration. The only additional charge we make is for the preparation of the Memorandum of Understanding, if required. This is a lengthy and detailed document summarising the outcome of any case involving financial and property matters and for which you will be billed for two hours, payable at the same hourly rate as for mediation. STOP PRESS... Because of some government funding, we are now in a position to extend free mediation to all clients, regardless of their eligibility status, for the first two mediation sessions. To qualify: i) The client must first have been assessed as not eligible for public funding (legal aid) by the mediator. ii) The mediation must be entirely concerned with matters regarding the children or the parents' relationship. Mediation on finance and property is not covered by this scheme. iii) The mediation must take place at our Milton Rd, Swindon office. What are the next steps? If
you would like to know more please go to our Contact
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page where you can find email and phone details. ![]() Steve and SarahSteve and Sarah separated soon after John (5 months) was born. Although acknowledged as John’s father and paying Child Support through the CSA, Steve was not registered as John’s father on his birth certificate and did not have parental responsibility.When Steve and Sarah first came to mediation there had been no contact between them for 2 months and each was unwilling to give any ground. At the first mediation session the parents were helped to focus on John’s needs and acknowledge each other’s perspective. They made arrangements for Steve to spend time with Sarah and John, so that eventually Steve and John could spend time alone once their relationship was established. The parents arrived for the second session together and said that they now talked more often and had enjoyed spending time together with John. However Sarah still had reservations about John spending time alone with Steve. Discussion helped both Sarah and Steve to share their concerns and they agreed an arrangement for Steve to spend time alone with John. ________________________________________
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